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April 24, 2006
Five Titles, All Sap
In the Spirit of Lists of Wedding Lists, Twelve Days Before Our Nuptials. Or, Things that I Will Not Get a Chance to Say at Our Wedding but Feel the Need to State. Or, An Explanation of Tears that I Will Shed, Written to Myself Because I Do Not Cry Well.
Or, A Small Dedication.
To the generations of family who have watched me grow and in turn grown around me.
To the new family who have embraced me.
To the first friends who have watched and loved me through nearly three decades of development.
To the friends who entered my life during a time of tumult and watched the slow but steady ascent to calm.
To the two mentors�the professor and the doctor�who watched me walk into walls as I struggled to see the possibilities that they held out for me and, over time, witnessed my acceptance of them, and triumph.
To the parents whose hearts broke and healed so many times, sewn back together with the mantra "We want you to be happy."
To the Husband who is really no longer an Almost but an Actual, a partner, supporter, all encompassing warmth with a patience unmatched by anyone else on this earth.
To us, not strengthened but confirmed by a simple ritual, one day in May.
These tears, they are an affirmation. To me, they are worth more than the world.
Posted by callalillie at April 24, 2006 7:14 AM | Introspect , Wedding
Posted by: felicity at April 24, 2006 10:05 AM
Posted by: Alexis at April 24, 2006 10:06 AM
Beautiful. I'm sure you and your husband to be will cherish these tears for years to come.
Posted by: Dope on the Slope at April 24, 2006 10:06 AM
Very beautiful. You should find a way to bottle those tears for posterity.
Posted by: scraps at April 24, 2006 12:05 PM
*sniffle* That was beautiful.
Posted by: Divaah46 at April 24, 2006 2:29 PM
bawled. bawled. bawled.
i am so pleased for you both.
and i cannot believe it's only 12 days...
Posted by: phc at April 24, 2006 3:25 PM
I'm one of those first friends! ME, I'm one of them! YAY!
but touchy-feely much? are you having the girlies? Hope they're gone by the 6th.
Posted by: Jason at April 24, 2006 3:43 PM
Really, really beautiful.
I'm not a crier either so I understand completely.
Here's to you and your almost husband!
Posted by: Marcia at April 24, 2006 4:08 PM
I'm all teary. That was lovely.
Posted by: carrster at April 24, 2006 6:00 PM
Just between us girls--it sounds like you've got yourself a great AH. The rest should be gravy. Best wishes for a lifetime of happiness together.
Posted by: marjorie at April 24, 2006 9:52 PM